Knowing how to best support our teenagers can be very challenging at times, and requires the use of different parenting skills throughout the years. One of the most supportive ways we can engage with our students at any age is with active listening. The power of listening is that it meets a fundamental human need to be heard and where other’s thoughts, ideas, and opinions are respected. Listening also serves to help strengthen the relationship with your teenager, whilst also supporting their development of communication and negotiation skills. 

Active listening shifts our parenting towards more of a coaching role which is supportive and encouraging, rather than just looking for those teachable moments. As adolescents grow towards adulthood, they increasingly need opportunity to develop independence and autonomy, making their own decisions where possible. However, there are times when it is appropriate as their informed adult to step in and intervene when necessary. 

I encourage parents with the new school year to think about shifting your parenting style a little, and try engaging with your teenagers with active listening, holding back on offering too much advice and judgement. Happy listening!

Brekky Club

Brekky Club operates three mornings each week before school on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. The program is intended to support students to better engage in learning without the struggle as a result of limited or poor breakfast choices. There are many students who access this program out of necessity, but our policy is that we feed the crowd to target the few. Thank you to the YMCA School’s Breakfast Program for supply the food, and the staff and volunteers who help me each week.

Keep in Touch

I’m available to be an active listener and encourager on Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday. Please feel free to contact me through the school office or email jennifer.bennett@suchaplaincy.org.au

Blessings, Jennifer Bennett

Chaplain